Before you say "I DO"

So many people get into marriage without preparation and lack of preparation is actually preparing to fail. The times singles waste in relationships is a time they would have used to develop themselves. Some young people of today have turned into relationship freaks, they can`t just stay alone always moving from one relationship to the other. A lot of singles are not single and have never been single in life. To be single simply means "to be whole, separate, alone and not lonely and complete.

Let me tell us something my single ladies out there it is a disaster to find yourself in a man`s house underdeveloped. You can`t go into marriage without bringing anything into it. You are destroying your CV by going into numerous relationships without developing yourself because you are only going to have a CV on how you dated Tom, Dick, Jerry etc and it did not work out.

The bible says a virtuous woman and a faithful man who can find? It simply means she is scarce, when a commodity is scarce the demand increases and the price also increases. The bible says her price is far above rubies.
A PRODUCT THAT IS GOOD SELLS ITSELF
It all starts with a decision to train yourself, develop yourself. He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. The question is ARE YOU A GOOD THING? How you prepare yourself determines who God blesses you with. Nobody is born a virtuous woman or a faithful man. You make up your mind and develop yourself. Marriage is not about finding the right person but being the right person. It might even shock you to know that Who you marry is not God`s decision but your decision. You think of what that guy will do for you, what he will give you instead of saying this man I am going to marry will fulfill his destiny, he is going to be blessed, so even when they come across you and think you are not good enough they miss a treasure.
Riches and honor are from fathers but a PRUDENT WIFE is from the Lord.
THE STRENGTH OF A WOMAN IS IN HER WEAKNESS!

Special thanks to my Pastor Sufficient Bien

Indigenous Writer Chimamanda Adichie in Commonwealth Lecture 2012

 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was born in Nigeria in 1977. She is the author of the novel "purple hibiscus" which was released wide critical acclaim; it was shortlisted for the Orange Prize Fiction 2004 and was awarded the commonwealth Writer`s Prize for Best First Book 2005 and her second novel, Half of a yellow Sun, named after the flag of the short lived Nation of Biafra is set before and during the Biafra war. It was awarded the 2007 Orange Prize Fiction. Her third book, "The Thing Around Your Neck", is a collection of short stories published in 2009. Adichie`s story, "Ceiling", was included in the 2011 edition of the best American short stories.
    She has received numerous awards and distinctions including the MacArthur foundation Fellowship 2008. She was invited to 2012 Commonwealth Lecture in which she gave an inspiring lecture,"To instruct and delight: A case for realist literature. Check out her site http://www.halfofayellowsun.com/.

YOU CAN MAKE THE DIFFERENCE AGE IS NOT A FACTOR

Pearl the last child of a renowned Nigerian born Ukrainian based Pastor Sunday Adelaja who owns the biggest church in Europe. The young girl burning with so much passion to make a difference in the world by setting up a project to help the less developed communities by providing good water suitable for human consumption.
This below was her word in her recent post:
The world is in a mess.I am 9 years old.I also like writing books for kids. My campaign W.F.Y.A.O.H stands for : Water For Young And Old Hearts, because:

People are sick. Starving. Poor.I read or hear about it in the news. There are so many people who need help.We need to show God's love. There are so many causes and so much to do.

I've had it pretty good in life. I don't want to sit by and just do nothing, so I picked one cause I think everyone can agree on. I'm working to give people something they absolutely cannot do without -- the most basic of health needs.

I want to give people clean drinking water. I have already started fundraising by selling my old clothes.

More than a billion people don't have access to safe drinking water. I don't mean that their pipes don't work; I mean that they have to walk hours each day to collect dirty water from stagnant ponds and muddy rivers. And the crazy thing is that for so many of them, clean water runs in aquifers under their homes and villages. But they don't have the drilling equipment or the money to reach it.

Just $5,000 can build a clean water project to serve a community of 250 people. My goal is to raise $1,000 towards a project in the next three months.You can too, go to www.mycharity.org/ then sign up find friends like me , Pearl Adelaja! then you can donate to others or yourself. All your donations save lives and God's creation!

There's a lot of need in the world and helping people is helping God's creation. I'm starting here. Will you join me?

You can check up her site to support this little girl to fulfill her dreams and also encourage the kids out there to strife for make the difference in the world.http://mycharitywater.org/p/campaign?campaign_id=24812

Zoe the first daughter of Pastor Sunday is also embarked on the journey alongside the youngest daughter to make the world greatest difference you can check her out on her website and encourage this young ones towards being the best they can be in the world and also setting a pace for everyone out there especially the youths that age is not a factor you can make a difference if and if you want to.

Like I will always say "its all about you". You can get more information about her on her site http://mycharitywater.org/p/campaign?campaign_id=24811

Mercy-530 (Top 5 Contestants-Nigerian Week)

Mercy one of the top contestants in Nigerian Idol season 2 who has proven beyond reasonable doubt her capability of being the next Idol despite her petite nature she always wow the crowd with her fabulous performance. Having bought the hearts of so many people with her charisma, style and her dress sense always ready to give something new. The question is do you think she is capable? I trust she can bought it is left for Nigerians to decide if she can represent us.

"I will wait for you" by Official P4CM Poet JANETTE...IKZ

Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus || Spoken Word

"SILENCE IS DEADLY" by Official P4CM Poet Ezekiel

THERE COMES THE ANSWER

WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN THOSE YOU LOVED, HELPED AND TRUSTED BETRAY YOU?
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN THOSE YOU CALLED FRIENDS, TURN TO BE ENEMIES??
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU LOSE THOSE YOU TRULY LOVED TO DEATH???
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN IN A DAY YOU LOSE ALL YOUR VALUABLES AND LEFT WITH NOTHING, EXCEPT FRUSTRATION????
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN THOSE YOU LOOKED UP TO, BELIEVED IN AND TRUSTED DISAPPOINTS, DISGRACE AND CRITICIZE YOU WRONGLY?????
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN LIFE SEEMS SO MEANINGLESS AND UNFAIR??????
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN IT SEEMS AS IF THE WHOLE WORLD IS AGAINST YOU???

WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN ALL HELL LET LOSE AND GOD SEEMS TO BE SILENT?
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN THOSE WHO WOULD HAVE ENCOURAGE YOU, ATTRIBUTES YOUR TROUBLE TO SIN?????????
THEY SAY, SHE/HE IS IN SUCH PROBLEMS BECAUSE SHE/HE SINNED........
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN MEN ASKS YOU.......WHERE IS YOUR GOD???????????

WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN MEN BOAST AND SAY, I WILL DESTROY YOU, AND WHO IS THAT GOD THAT WILL DELIVER YOU FROM MY HAND AND IT SEEMS AS IF GOD IS SILENT??????????????????????????????????????????

DEAR CHILD OF GOD IN TIMES LIKE THIS........
YOU HAVE TO TRUST GOD!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOUR FAITH IN HIM!!!!!!!!!
AND JUST LIKE Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, YOU HAVE TO SPEAK OUT IN FAITH,
LET IT BE KNOWN UNTO YOU devil THE GOD I SERVE IS ABLE TO DELIVER ME BUT EVEN IF HE CHOOSES NOT TO..........YET WILL I STILL TRUST HIM.(RESIST THE devil AND he WILL FLEE)

JUST LIKE THE 3 HEBREW CHILDREN.............
GOD MIGHT SEEMS TO BE SILENT WHEN THEY CATCH YOU......
HE MIGHT SEEMS TO BE SILENT WHILE THEY BOND YOU..........
HE MIGHT SEEMS TO BE SILENT WHILE THEY ARE CARRYING YOU TO THE FIRE...
HE MIGHT SEEMS TO BE SILENT WHILE THEY THROW YOU INTO THE FIRE.....
BUT JUST BEFORE YOU LAND IN THE FIRE, HE LANDS BEFORE YOU. GLORY!
WHEN YOUR enemy(devil) WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THEY HAVE WON.........
HE APPEARS ON THE SCENE, HE IS NEVER LATE.......WHEN YOU THINK HE DELAYS IS FOR YOU TO HAVE A GREATER GLORY AND TESTIMONY.
FOR HE HAS SAID, I WILL BE WITH YOU THROUGH THE FIRES, THROUGH THE WATERS.......I WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NONE FORSAKE YOU.
HE SAID EVEN THOUGH A MOTHER MIGHT FORSAKE HER SUCKING CHILD I WILL NEVER FORSAKE YOU!!!!!!!!!!
OUR GOD IS A FAITHFUL GOD, HAS HE SAID IT AND HE WILL NOT DO IT?
FOR HE HAS SAID, I HAVE EXALTED MY WORD ABOVE MY NAME.

IF I WHERE YOU, INSTEAD OF BEING DEPRESSED..........I WILL JUMP UP AND BEGIN TO PRAISE GOD......PRAISE HIM IN YOUR DIALECT,PRAISE IN YOUR SPIRIT, PRAISE HIM IN TONGUES.......... WORSHIP HIM IN SPIRIT AND IN TRUTH, FOR YOUR DELIVERANCE AND PROMOTION IS HERE.
FOR AFTER EVER TEST THERE IS A PROMOTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF THE devil KNEW THAT KILLING JESUS WILL DETHRONE HIM FROM THE EARTH...
IF he KNEW THAT KILLING CHRIST WILL GIVE HIM A NAME HIGHER THAN ANY OTHER NAME...........
IF he KNEW THAT KILLING HIM WILL BRING ABOUT YOUR SALVATION AND MINE, he WON'T HAVE KILLED HIM

FINALLY BRETHREN LET IT BE KNOWN UNTO YOU, THAT ALL THINGS WORKETH TOGETHER FOR GOOD TO THEM THAT LOVE GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REJOICE IN THE LORD ALWAYS AND AGAIN I SAY REJOICE!!!!!!!!!!!!! — Sufficient Bien.