Sunday, 18 March 2012

Before you say "I DO"

So many people get into marriage without preparation and lack of preparation is actually preparing to fail. The times singles waste in relationships is a time they would have used to develop themselves. Some young people of today have turned into relationship freaks, they can`t just stay alone always moving from one relationship to the other. A lot of singles are not single and have never been single in life. To be single simply means "to be whole, separate, alone and not lonely and complete.

Let me tell us something my single ladies out there it is a disaster to find yourself in a man`s house underdeveloped. You can`t go into marriage without bringing anything into it. You are destroying your CV by going into numerous relationships without developing yourself because you are only going to have a CV on how you dated Tom, Dick, Jerry etc and it did not work out.
The bible says a virtuous woman and a faithful man who can find? It simply means she is scarce, when a commodity is scarce the demand increases and the price also increases. The bible says her price is far above rubies.
A PRODUCT THAT IS GOOD SELLS ITSELF
It all starts with a decision to train yourself, develop yourself. He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. The question is ARE YOU A GOOD THING? How you prepare yourself determines who God blesses you with. Nobody is born a virtuous woman or a faithful man. You make up your mind and develop yourself. Marriage is not about finding the right person but being the right person. It might even shock you to know that Who you marry is not God`s decision but your decision. You think of what that guy will do for you, what he will give you instead of saying this man I am going to marry will fulfill his destiny, he is going to be blessed, so even when they come across you and think you are not good enough they miss a treasure.
Riches and honor are from fathers but a PRUDENT WIFE is from the Lord.
THE STRENGTH OF A WOMAN IS IN HER WEAKNESS!

Special thanks to my Pastor Sufficient Bien

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